If you think you just need intelligence to succeed, then this belief will make your life difficult because success only comes to those who also know how to digest failures, criticism, standing alone, painful time, lonely nights, long hours, keep working even when there is 1% chance of success, that is only achieved by one quality — Resilience.
Stop labeling yourself without even trying things. Because, the thing you consider impossible, will only become possible, once you try it.
Once you failed in maths — in grade 1, that doesn’t mean you’ll fail in maths again in engineering exam. So, stop doing Over-Generalization, it will destroy your life.
Stop operating from victim mentality — that’s the real problem because once you believe that your effort or hard work wouldn’t change your situation. Then, no one can help you.
You often get depressed, when your friends or family not giving you the same importance, that you’re used to. You need to understand one thing, they are not devaluing you. They just have something more interesting in their lives, that takes their attention.
Stop playing the blame games and start taking the responsibility of your all-action whether it’s right or wrong. Always own every part of your life, because every experience (good or bad), weakness, strength, challenge helps you to make the person you’re today.
You don’t get slim by eating fast food, the same way you don’t get strong by just watching martial art training on TV. Strength either mentally or physically only comes from practice or more importantly by consistent practice.
As you throw rotten tomatoes from your refrigerator, the same way you should throw your rotten beliefs from your mind. Either it’s a tomato or beliefs, it becomes useless once it’s rotten.
Stop bashing yourself for the mistakes that you never commit.
Stop calculating yourself worth on others’ calculators. Use your own calculator, you’ll have a happier and satisfying life.